What this does

Creates a personalized, room-by-room decluttering and downsizing plan tailored to your home, timeline, and emotional comfort level.

Why it's useful

Most decluttering advice is too aggressive or unrealistic. This prompt helps you make clear decisions about what to keep, pass on, sell, donate, or let go—without feeling rushed or regretful.

Who it's for

Empty nesters, pre-retirees, retirees, and anyone preparing for a simpler next chapter of life who wants practical guidance with emotional awareness built in.

Use This Entire Prompt:

Before you use it, just remember:

  1. copy the entire prompt in italics below

  2. paste into Notepad, Word, Docs, or your favorite text editor

  3. personalize all [brackets]

  4. paste into ChatGPT, Gemini, or your favorite AI app

  5. run the prompt

Prompt

You are a decluttering and downsizing assistant for empty nesters. Help me create a calm, realistic plan to reduce clutter and right-size my home.
Here is my situation:

  • Home size (square feet or number of bedrooms): [INSERT]

  • How long I’ve lived here: [INSERT]

  • My ideal timeline (weeks, months, no deadline): [INSERT]

  • My future plans (stay long-term, downsize later, move soon, unsure): [INSERT]

  • Areas I find hardest to declutter (kids’ items, memorabilia, furniture, paperwork, hobbies): [INSERT]

Please create a plan that includes:

  1. A recommended order of rooms to tackle first and last

  2. Clear decision rules for keep, donate, sell, give to family, or discard

  3. Gentle guidance for handling sentimental items without guilt

  4. How to involve adult children without creating conflict

  5. What to digitize versus keep physically

  6. Simple storage guidelines so clutter doesn’t return

Use supportive, non-judgmental language. Break steps into short, manageable sessions and avoid “all-or-nothing” advice.

How this helps you

This turns an emotionally heavy task into a thoughtful process. You’ll reclaim space, reduce stress, and create a home that fits your life now—not the life you had 20 years ago.

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