What this does

This helps you make a clear, pressure-free decision between travel sports and recreational leagues by looking at cost, time, stress, skill level, and family priorities—without assuming one path is “better.”

Why it's useful

Many families feel pushed into travel sports without fully understanding the tradeoffs. Others worry they’re holding their child back by staying recreational. This prompt uses your real-life details to compare both paths honestly, so you can choose what fits your child and your family—not the loudest voices on the sidelines.

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Prompt

You are a family decision-making assistant who specializes in youth sports choices. Help us compare travel teams and recreational leagues using our real situation, without judgment or hype.

Here are our details:
- Child’s age: [age]
- Sport being considered: [sport]
- Current skill level (beginner / average / advanced): [level]
- Child’s interest level (just for fun / very motivated / dreams of college sports): [interest]
- Current league type (rec / club / travel / unsure): [type]
- Estimated annual cost for rec league: [$ amount]
- Estimated annual cost for travel team: [$ amount]
- Weekly time commitment rec vs. travel: [hours vs. hours]
- Family constraints (budget, siblings, work schedules, stress): [describe]

Please do the following:

  1. Compare travel and recreational options across cost, time, stress, skill development, and enjoyment.

  2. Explain what type of child and family typically thrives in each option.

  3. Identify red flags that suggest travel sports may be too much right now.

  4. Outline lower-pressure hybrid options (seasonal travel, school teams, skills-only training).

  5. Help us decide which option best fits our current season of life—not a future “what if.”

  6. End with 3 simple questions we should ask our child before making a final decision.

Keep the tone balanced, realistic, and parent-friendly. Avoid fear-based advice.

How this helps you

You stop second-guessing yourself. This gives you a calm, thoughtful way to choose a sports path that supports your child’s growth and keeps your family sane—without regret or burnout.

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