What this does
This guide helps you determine when independent living is no longer safe and whether assisted living or memory care is the right next step. It turns emotional uncertainty into a clearer decision based on real-world signs, not guilt or crisis-driven panic.
Why it's useful
Families often wait too long—or move too fast—because they don’t know what truly signals the need for more care. This prompt helps you evaluate safety, cognitive changes, daily functioning, and caregiver strain so decisions are proactive instead of reactive.
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Prompt
I want help deciding whether it’s time to consider assisted living or memory care for someone in my life. Ask me questions one section at a time and wait for my response before continuing.
Start by asking about the person involved:
- Age: [age]
- Relationship to me: [self / parent / spouse / other]
- Current living situation: [alone / with family / independent community]
- Location (state or country): [location]
Next, ask about daily functioning:
- Ability to bathe, dress, cook, and manage medications
- Missed meals, hygiene changes, or weight loss
- Recent falls or safety incidents
Then ask about cognitive and behavioral changes:
- Memory loss affecting daily life
- Confusion, wandering, or getting lost
- Changes in mood, personality, or judgment
- Diagnosed dementia or mild cognitive impairment
Next, ask about caregiver impact:
- Who is currently providing help
- Hours per week spent caregiving
- Signs of caregiver burnout or strain
Then explain, in plain language:
- The difference between assisted living and memory care
- What level of care typically fits the situation I described
- Warning signs that mean waiting is risky
End by giving me a clear decision summary that includes:
- Whether staying at home is still reasonable
- Which care option may be appropriate next
- What steps to take in the next 30–60 days
- Questions to ask when touring facilities
How this helps you
You’ll gain clarity instead of second-guessing. This prompt helps you recognize when support is needed, understand your options, and take thoughtful next steps—before safety, health, or family relationships are damaged.
