What this does
This guide helps you organize, prioritize, and manage caregiving responsibilities when you don’t live near the person who needs help. It turns scattered worry into a clear, repeatable system for staying informed, involved, and effective—even from far away.
Why it's useful
Long-distance caregivers often carry constant guilt and uncertainty. You’re never sure if you’re doing enough, what you might be missing, or when to step in. This prompt helps you build a practical care framework so support doesn’t depend on guesswork or emergency travel.
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Prompt
I want help creating a long-distance caregiving plan for someone I care about. Ask me questions one section at a time and wait for my response before continuing.
Start by asking about the situation:
- Age of the person needing care: [age]
- Relationship to me: [parent / spouse / other]
- Distance from me: [city/state or hours away]
- Current living situation: [alone / with family / assisted living]
Next, ask about care needs and risks:
- Medical conditions and medications
- Cognitive or memory concerns
- Mobility, fall risk, or safety issues
- Frequency of doctor visits or emergencies
Then help me set up remote support systems, including:
- Regular check-in schedules
- Technology for monitoring or communication
- Local contacts (neighbors, friends, professionals)
- Emergency plans and backup decision-makers
Next, help me organize responsibilities by category:
- Medical coordination
- Financial and bill management
- Home maintenance and safety
- Emotional and social support
End by creating a clear long-distance caregiving action plan that includes:
- Weekly and monthly check-in routines
- Red flags that require immediate action or travel
- Tools to reduce guilt and burnout
- Questions to ask doctors or local caregivers
How this helps you
You’ll replace constant worry with structure. Instead of reacting to crises, you’ll have a clear system for staying involved, spotting problems early, and supporting someone you love—without being physically present every day.
